YOUR CONFLICT BRAVERY™ STYLE
The Bridge Maker
COMPROMISING
You find fair middle ground fast and keep things moving. Your brave edge is slowing down long enough to find the solution that fully works for everyone.
You’re practical and fair — you find the middle ground fast and get people unstuck. That keeps things moving. The brave invitation for you is to slow down sometimes and reach past the answer everyone can live with, toward the one that fully works.
There is no “right” style — every one of them is a strength in the right moment. Here is how yours tends to show up, and where the brave work lives for you.
Your strengths
- You’re great at finding workable middle ground quickly.
- You read what each side needs and keep things fair.
- You help stalled situations start moving again.
Watch for
- “Splitting the difference” can leave the best solution undiscovered.
- Everyone gets a little, but no one gets what they need.
- Moving fast to a deal can skip the deeper conversation.
Grow your bravery
- Before settling, ask: “Is there a way everyone actually wins here?”
- Give the harder problems a few more minutes before you trade.
- Notice when ‘fair’ has quietly become ‘good enough’ — then push for better.
One brave practice to try this week
The next time you feel the pull to split the difference, pause and ask, “Is there a way everyone actually wins here?” Give the harder problem a few more minutes before you trade. Sometimes “fair” is quietly standing in for “good enough” — and the fuller solution is closer than it looks.
If this struck a chord, the Conflict Bravery™ Masterclass is where the practice happens — live, in a small group, with Altagracia.
Not sure this is you? Retake the Conflict Bravery Quiz.
